What does it really mean to grow up as a 1.5 Asian migrant in New Zealand? In this episode of the Authentic Leadership Podcast, Wendy Su shares her deeply personal journey navigating identity, responsibility, and the unspoken pressures many Asian migrants carry but rarely talk about. From the invisible “contract to succeed” that many immigrant children inherit, to taking on adult responsibilities at a young age, Wendy opens up about the hidden realities behind the “model minority” narrative. This is a conversation about sacrifice, burnout, family, love, and the courage to define your own path. We explore: The unspoken pressure to succeed as an immigrant child Growing up between cultures and identities Early responsibility, burnout, and emotional impact Family expectations, sacrifice, and healing Setting boundaries while still holding love Redefining success on your own terms This episode speaks to anyone who has ever felt the weight of expectation, navigated cultural identity, or tried to honour both family and self at once.